Day 20: A Phone Call, a Breathing Meditation & a Beagle

Five PM: Phone call with one of my best writing friends, Jacqueline. There is wonder in hearing her voice, learning how she is, sharing common mishaps, new joys, and perseverance. Conversations with friends leave a wonder filled with joy; we do not do this life alone.

Eight PM: Baby boy is asleep. Nick shows me a new breathing/meditation technique — Wim Hof Method. Nick held his breath for over 2 minutes, I held mine for 1:45. It’s surprising to remember what the body is capable of in terms of breath. During the activity I pictured myself smiling while swimming underwater in an Olympic length pool.

Nine PM: I scroll on Facebook and see the last beagle baby of my (deceased) beagle Sasha’s puppies had passed. Her name is Lexi. A family friend picked her out of the litter about fourteen or fifteen years ago. I was a sophomore in high school. I remember being so happy to see the babies healthy and here. Lexi was sisters with Maddie, the puppy we chose from the litter, who passed in winter 2018. I look at Lexi’s face and remember my girl, Sasha, who passed in 2015, two months before my wedding. And Maddie. I was reminded of the wonder of my love for animals — here and gone.

Three wonders for a Monday.

Here’s Lexi. And her mom, Sasha, in 2012.

Lexi, 2019
Sasha, 2012

Day 7: A Cat is a Girl’s Best Friend

I have said this before and I’ll say it again — there is no one that loves me as much as my cat. Humans can get annoyed by me, but my cat? No way.

Of course I am semi-kidding. My humans love me a lot. But there is so much hype around dogs being a girl’s best friend. But I think cats deserve a little more spotlight beyond funny GIFs and memes.

I was reminded by the wonder of my cat’s affection when we returned home yesterday. She was on my lap immediately, purring, cuddling, doing that strange cat thing where they knead their claws into the blanket like they are nesting. Today she has followed me to every spot around the house — from the bathroom, living room and kitchen.

Today I honor Brea — which means “love” in Gaelic. Which suits her because she is Irish, born on St. Patrick’s Day. And her last name is O’Neil, also Irish. She’s the purr of love.

Brea
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